The Smoky Confrontation
January 29th, 2008 at 11:13 pm, 18 months agoA smoke detector just went off in an apartment down the hall from mine. My unit didn’t come with a smoke detector. I should call the city about that one.
Anyways. A few days ago I was at the local CVS parking one of the iGO Car Sharing cars after a quick trip to Target and I was approached by a white male who needed $5 to stay at the hostel next door to my building. OK, no big deal. I didn’t have $5 so it was no big deal saying no, not to mention I think the guy has been living at that hostel for the past month and just paying for it by asking on the street.
But then things got interesting. Usually people who are begging for money just stay in one spot, he started following people. Including a woman who was trying to ignore him. He kept getting closer and closer to her as she walked down the block to the corner, until he was obviously in her personal space. I put myself in a position to get at him if he made any move on her (I probably couldn’t have taken him, but I at least would have allowed the woman to get away.) After she crossed the street, looking down and somewhat disturbed, I went and watched the guy go down the block to another person. I stopped him.
“I’ve seen you here before asking for money”
“I am staying at the hostel”
“I don’t care, if I ever see you go after someone like that again I’m going to call the police”
I didn’t feel threatened (he was smaller than I was and there were people around) but I couldn’t have him doing that to people. If he gets more desperate then there may become an issue.
I crossed the street and stopped at the corner, glancing back. He was walking up to a man this time and going into his physical space, similar to the woman. As I walked out of his view I picked up my phone and entered in the number of campus safety (they have jurisdiction and odds are they would get to the corner much faster than Chicago Police) and gave them a description of the man. They said they would send someone out to handle it.
It might have been stupid, but it was the right thing to do at the time.

